Hawaii’s
Walter Murray Gibson got a little carried away with his fondness for Mother
Marianne Cope
By Father Louis Yim |
Special to the
Herald
On Nov. 8, 1883, seven Sisters of St. Francis from Syracuse,
N.Y., arrived in Honolulu on the steamship Mariposa. They had
come in response to the Hawaii government’s
appeal to care for the Hansen’s disease patients at the BranchHospital
in Kakaako. From the wharf they were escorted by carriage to a crowded Our Lady
of Peace Cathedral on Fort Street
for a prayer service led by Bishop Hermann Koeckemann of the Hawaii Catholic
mission. With grateful hearts they chanted the ancient hymn of thanksgiving,
“Te Deum,” near the altar where almost 20 years earlier, the young Damien De Veuster
had been ordained to the priesthood.
On that momentous day, the kingdom’s prime minister Walter Murray
Gibson had also been present at the dock to greet the sisters. Someone there
described him as a “tall, thin old gentleman with white hair and beard: a
portrait of the Duke of Wellington at later life.” Bowing low, the 61-year-old
statesman kissed the hand of each nun and bid them all “Aloha!”
He had been immediately and deeply impressed with these “angels of
mercy,” most especially their 45-year-old superior, Mother Marianne Cope. In
the days to come, Gibson’s attraction to her would blossom steadfastly into an
incongruous and unrequited infatuation that only ended five years later with
his exile and lonely death in San
Francisco.
Walter Murray Gibson by all accounts was the most powerful political
figure in Hawaii
during the reign of King David Kalakaua. Historian R.S. Kuykendall referred to
this period in Hawaii’s
history as the “Gibson Regime.” As Kalakaua’s confidant, he was “minister of
everything.” In addition to being prime minister, he was in charge of foreign
affairs, education, the navy (with its “fleet” of one sailing vessel, the
Kaimiloa), and was also the president of the Board of Health.
It was in this latter capacity that he had arranged for the coming of
the Franciscan Sisters to minister (as Father Damien was doing on Molokai) to those inflicted with “mai pake,” the sickness
that had plagued the islands since the 1860s.
Much of what we know of Gibson’s relationship with these nuns is derived
from his diaries of 1886 and 1887. He writes about the people and the events in
the kingdom but entries into his journals also reveal the close and “happy”
association with the sisters during his frequent, almost daily, visits to the
convent on the Kakaako hospital grounds. He saw them in an official capacity at
the hospital and also as a privileged friend in the relaxing atmosphere of the
convent parlor.
He was a father figure, a benevolent patriarch, seeing to the care and
needs of these dedicated women. Generous to a fault, Gibson made it a habit to
send over to the convent, from his residence near Queen Street, victuals of all sorts: pies
and cakes, butter and buttermilk, bottles of wine and ale, fruits and flowers,
a dinner of roasted duck or turkey prepared by his cook. And it thrilled him to
no end when his carriage driver would return with a “sweet note” of sincere
appreciation from the nuns. He treasured deeply the “noble friendship” of these
gracious ladies.
But it was Mother Marianne that he singled out with an exclusive
affection. He freely admitted to his diaries his fondness for her, a matter he
would not disclose to the world. On Jan. 4, 1887, Gibson writes: “… so happy
with M. (Marianne). How noble and how good. How much I love her.” Four days
later, he writes: “I need a companionship she cannot give me. But a strong and
constant love binds me to her.” Again, two days later: “... the sweetness and
fondness of her manner completely satisfies my heart.” On his birthday, Jan.
16, six days later: “... a sweet note from M. … I was made happy.” Five days
after that, Gibson writes: “... How I love (this) woman.”
But there were moments when he felt the sharp pain and disappointments
of this relationship. At times Mother Marianne seemed to be (so he thought)
unpleasant, uninterested, unsympathetic, unappreciative of all he had done. On
these days, he went home and summed up his feelings under the word:
“disappointed.”
Gibson also seemed susceptible to some jealous resentment. When Father
Damien came from Molokai to Kakaako for
medical treatment on July 11, 1886, Gibson’s diary revealed an annoyance at the
attention Mother Marianne and the sisters gave this “noble priest.”
His comments about Father Damien were disparaging: “I begin to doubt
the genuineness of his religious devotion,” petty: “He talks too much,” and
even callous: “(I) will be content when he returns to Molokai.”
On another occasion, another priest aroused Gibson’s unseemly
suspicion. On March 20, 1887, the ship Zealandia arrived from the United States
and the prime minister went to the wharf to pick up its incoming mail. He later
wrote about the incident: “Carried letters this P.M. to convent. One from Rev.
J. Tuohy — name outside. Anxious to hear about him. M. did not wish to
communicate particulars of his letter. Regret this. Had reason to believe that
there was a particular interest between the two.”
For days this mysterious letter bothered him. He wrote: “The Tuohy
letter has unsettled my mind somewhat. I wish it could be explained.” And
again, he wrote: “I ought to ask her to explain all about it.” What Mother
Marianne did not disclose to Gibson — as it was none of his business — was that
Father Tuohy was one of a number of alcoholic priests that she had treated and
befriended at St. JosephHospital in Syracuse.
No doubt, she had considered this a private matter not to be discussed with
anyone.
If Gibson never openly revealed his feelings for Mother Marianne in
words, his actions on March 12, 1887, made it obvious how he really felt about
his “beloved daughter.” On that day he came to the convent bearing a special
gift — a gold ring. The inner surface was engraved with the date “March 12,
1885.” The outer surface had two inscriptions, one: the initials “W” and “M”
separated by a heart; the other: the scriptural reference “Ruth 1:16,17.”
Gibson was commemorating that day the second anniversary of a most
happy moment (a “cherry,” as he put it) in his life, the day Mother Marianne
told him that she would not be returning to Syracuse
but would remain in Hawaii.
The Old Testament quotation described the moment the Moabite woman Ruth, having
left her homeland, decided to remain in the land of the Israelites.
Mother Marianne must have been stunned by such a personal gift but she
accepted the ring. She was not Gibson’s “beloved,” but she indeed was a dear
friend. Today, the ring, in pristine condition, rests in the archives of the
Franciscan motherhouse in Syracuse.
This quixotic saga of Hawaii’s
prime minister came to an abrupt end four months later. Ironically, it was not
Mother Marianne who would depart the islands. She would go on ministering to
the sick until her death on Aug. 9, 1918, at age 80, in Kalaupapa. It was
Gibson who would leave, forced into exile on July 12 by the political upheaval of
1887. He died six months later, on Jan. 21, 1888, in St. Mary’s Hospital, San Francisco.
Near the ending of his diary of 1887, on Dec. 12, Gibson made this
entry: “What a glorious company of sweet, good women they are. The Catholic
religious woman is a true woman and the best of women — blessed I sincerely
feel. How I reverence and love my Franciscans...”
We can be sure he especially meant Mother Marianne Cope.